Case 4

Acid attack on B.U. and her two sisters from Ebonyi State, Nigeria

Objective

  1. To show the level of impunity regarding acid attacks on women in Nigeria

B.U.’s Story: Self narrative has been summarized

I was a 26 year-old patent medicine vendor based in a town in Ebonyi State. There was Isusu [1] (Thrift Contribution) among some business men and women in the town which I joined. We contributed N10,000 (Ten thousand Naira) every month. After some months, it was my turn to receive the sum of N150,000 (in August 2006). I kept N135,000 in my house planning  to use if to replenish my stock the following day.

Later that day, a customer called me from the bedroom to come and give treatment to his sick mother. I left my bedroom and crossed over to the shop to attend to the customer. I returned to the room only to find out that the N135,000 was no longer there. It had been stolen. On enquiry, one woman told me that she saw a young man named N” coming out from the back door of my room. When I confronted him about the missing money, he denied any knowledge. “N” is an electrician from the same state. He is my neighbour at work. When I arrived in the town to start the business, he had asked me to be his girlfriend which I turned down. That notwithstanding, we were still greeting each other.

Not knowing what else to do, I travelled to my village and informed my parents about the stolen money. They came back with meN” to swear an oath before a well-known shrine in the village to prove his innocence, which he refused. When he found out that my parents were bent on taking him to the shrine, he then admitted stealing my N135,000. As is customary in the area, his hands and feet were tied and disgraced publicly as a thief. His relations were invited and oral agreement was reached that the entire money would be paid back to me in instalments. I accepted this agreement as I had no choice.

A few days later, at about 3-4 a.m, I heard a knock on my door. It wasNs” voice claiming he was saying that he had come to return some of the money. I was reluctant to open the door at that time of the night, but my youngest sister (F.U.) who was visiting, urged me to open the door and receive the money no matter how small instead of allowing him to go back with it.

By then, my kid sister [2] with whom I live in Akwunakwuna had woken up and joined us at the door. As I opened the door, I felt very hot liquid and burning sensation on my face and I cried out to neighbours for help, shouting that hot water had been poured on me. At the same time my two siblings were shouting as the same liquid was also poured on them.

My two sisters and I, F.U., now 24 years old and O. U. now 12 years old were rushed (unconscious) to the Teaching Hospital where we spent the first 7 months on intensive treatment. Only part of our hospital bills of N450,000 were paid for by my parents through the sale of my father’s parcels of land.

The hospital management detained us in the hospital for months because our bills were not paid. In all, we spent a total of 20 months in the hospital.

Throughout our stay in the hospital, no relation ofN” came to the hospital to see us nor our parents to sympathize with them till date.N” has not returned the stolen money either. We later heard thatN” was arrested, detained and released later by the police. Presently, I am hearing thatN” is going round our village boasting that since I was the cause of his disgrace, he would kill me and kill himself any day he set eyes on me [3].

Since the incident in 2006, I have not gone to the village to see my mother. I am told that my mother is so broken hearted that she cannot bear to see me this way and that she now behaves abnormally [4].

 

Postscript:

Blessing lost her left ear and requires another operation on her left eye if she is to retain vision. There are no hairs on the part of her left scalp which was burnt .[5]

 

Learning Points

[1] The story shows clearly efforts at self-empowerment by B. U. through the local thrift system used as a savings scheme called Isusu (1).

[2] The system of distributive wealth is shown through the fact that B.U was supporting her younger sister, who lived with her

[3] The aspect of the level of impunity is evident through the fact that the perpetrator is still walking around free in the community.

[4] The impact of violence on close family members is often ignored. In this case not only B.U.’s two sisters were injured, but the incident still affects her mother psychologically.

 

Background information (2)

Acid throwing, also called an acid attack, a vit attack or vitriolage, is a form of violent assault defined as the act of throwing acid or a similarly corrosive substance onto the body of another with the intention to disfigure, maim, torture, or kill. Perpetrators of these attacks throw acid at their victims, usually at their faces, burning them, and damaging skin tissue, often exposing and sometimes dissolving the bones. The most common types of acid used in these attacks are sulfuric and nitric acid. The long term consequences of these attacks may include blindness, as well as permanent scarring of the face and body, along with far-reaching social, psychological, and economic difficulties.

 

References

(1) Isusu: Women Entrepreneurship and Development: The Gendering of Microfinance in Nigeria : http://www.gdrc.org/icm/country/nigeria-women.html (accessed 22 th of November 2014).

(2) . According to wikipedia. (http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acid_throwing (accessed 22 th of November 2014).

(3) Nigeria: Curbing Incessant Acid Attacks http://allafrica.com/stories/201110060699.html
(accessed 22 th of November 2014).

 

Case 3

Murder and attempted murder due to consequences of an arranged marriage of a Moroccan woman living in Belgium gone wrong in Antwerp (Belgium)

Objectives

  1. To show how cultural isolation of a migrant community can result in an escalation of violence due to “honour loss” by the husband-to-be

 

  1. To show how the family hierarchy allows the father to have absolute control over his daughter as to whom she can marry

Narrative Case

A young, 26-year-old Moroccan woman, Fatima, is told by her father that he has invited a 35-­year old man from Morocco to marry her [1]. When the man arrives illegally in Belgium, the father tries to get his daughter to become reconciled with her faith and marry the young man. In the meantime, they are kept away from each other but the young woman strongly objects to the obligations of marriage that faith puts upon her, to the extent that she gets her mother on her side [2]. Whilst trying to get legal permission to stay in Belgium, the man does not work and his permit is rejected [3]. It looks like the only way he will be able to marry Fatima is to take her back to Morocco. She resists his attempts. One day, he came to the house when she had just left on her way to work [4]. As well as stabbing and fatally injuring her, he also stabs her mother several times when she came out of the house upon hearing the commotion. The mother survives the stabbing. The man is imprisoned and convicted and the mother ends up divorcing her husband as a result of the loss of their daughter. The rest of the family was subsequently supportive of the mother but due to divorce she has lost support from the local community and mainly stays indoors [5].

Learning Points

[1] Girls in Morocco are subjected to early arranged marriage resulting in early childbearing and no chance for education.

[2] She has according to her faith no empowerment to do what she wants. In this situation, young women loose the support network of their own family and find they are fighting for their rights all by themselves,  although in this case with some support from her mother.

[3] Entry to Belgium without visa is not possible for Moroccans. Therefore many arrive in Belgium illegally and try to get legal working permission.

[4] Fatima is well integrated in the Belgian society, works and is a modern woman who wants to live her own life. This leads to a conflict with the expected role of women in the Moroccan society.

[5] Moroccans are not integrated well within the Belgian society and they are often discriminated against. Therefore they form isolated communities within Belgium with strong religious beliefs. Tradition is very important to them. Fatima’s refusal to marry the man her father had found for her violates the honour of the husband-to-be. The only way to restore his honour is an honour-killing. As a consequence, the mother after divorcing the husband despite support from the rest of her family is without support from the Moroccan community.

 

Background information

In Belgium, 450.000 Moroccans from North Africa live and form the largest group of non-western immigrants. Most of them are Muslims and speak Berber or Arabic. Until the start of the 1970s, many left for Belgium and other European countries to work. Most of them were men from the rural countryside with little education and no professional qualifications. Starting in 1996 entering Belgium without a visa was no longer possible for Moroccans. Therefore illegal immigration became and still is a problem.

Moroccans and other North Africans are among the most problematic groups of immigrants in Europe. Fifty three percent of the Moroccan community in Belgium live below the poverty threshold and usually in big cities. Eighty percent of the women do not work. Thirty six percent of Moroccans do not speak the language well and one quarter of them are not able to speak to their Belgian neighbours. They do not integrate well within Belgian society and have great difficulty in finding a job compared to the native population. Second generation immigrants say they feel more discriminated against in the job market than their first generation elders. Many of these immigrants are frustrated and angry young Muslim males who cannot find a job because they dropped out of school. There is also a great risk of radicalization within the Muslim community and fathers especially want their daughters to live according to their religious beliefs.

 

References:

http://www.hbvl.be/cnt/oid467914/archief-voor-het-eerst-meer-marokkaanse-dan-italiaanse-migranten (accessed 7th of October, 2015)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moroccan_diaspora (accessed 7th of October, 2015)

http://www.economist.com/blogs/charlemagne/2009/07/europeanmoroccans_and_the_live (accessed 7th of October, 2015)

http://www.pipelinenews.org/2013/jun/03/moroccan-criminal-gangs-in-holland-belgium-heavily.html (accessed 7th of October, 2015)

 

Case 2

Domestic violence in the rural area of Daule Canton because of jealousy and macho-like behavior

Objectives:

  1. To show that domestic violence in rural areas is influenced by the lack of education and distrust of men towards women.

Narrative Case:

Jessica is a 28 year-old-woman from Canton Daule, a province of Guayas (Ecuador). She had a quiet childhood and lived with her parents and her brothers in a rural area. She is the fifth of her siblings and  like her parents and siblings, did not finish secondary education. Only one sister just reached high school, the others started to work at an early age and had to help with the housework. [1]

At 20 years of  age, she moved in with her partner; a 23 year-old-man who studied up to the fourth year of college. At first they lived in Quito for 6 months because of his work as a carpenter and she undertook the housework. When she became pregnant, they moved to Guayaquil where they lived for a few more months and where her oldest son was born. They later returned to Daule and Jessica became pregnant again.

At some point she noticed that her partner cheated on her. She realized that he was a drunkard and womanizer and decided to leave him [2], [3]. After six months he came to her house, apologized and she forgave him, but since then it was not the same. They began fighting. He lost his job because of being an alcoholic [4]. She decided to separate again and finally left him. Shortly afterwards, her former partner came to her apartment, chopped off her hands in a jealous rage attack in an attempt to kill her [5]. She vividly remembers when he pulled out the machete and cut off her hands with a single blow: “He wanted to hit my head but I put up my hands and he cut them; my oldest son was with me and saw everything and fainted …”

Jessica described how difficult it has been getting used to her new life. She is however a strong woman who has never thought about suicide; in contrast, she says that God let her survive to tell her story and to fight against domestic violence. According to statistics the level of domestic violence in Latin America is very high and practiced daily at home. “They took my hands but not my life, not my dreams and now I want to go ahead with my example to come to families with a message to stop family violence.”

Today Jessica is working in the Community Development Department of the Municipality of Daule in Guayas. The pictures show her stumps and with a prosthesis.

 

Learning Points

  1. Most rural women in Ecuador are engaged in household and childcare and have no opportunity to receive higher education which makes it impossible to become independent from a) their families or b) their husbands. In Ecuador finishing secondary education (until 15years of age) is according to the New Ley Orgánica de Educación Intercultural (from March 2011) mandatory. This example shows that in the rural regions, where poverty is most probably omnipresent, this law is not observed. Better monitoring of the law might help but will not change the basic problem of poverty. Most families can only afford to have one child in higher education.
  2. When a woman decides to separate from her husband, he does not always take the separation as permanent. In Ecuador, society is traditional and the man must be strong, macho and “man-like” and in order to do so he must prove his authority. When a man is left by a woman his proudness is violated and some men cannot come over this. There have been various campaigns aiming to eliminate machismo in Ecuador and Latin America (for example “El machismo es violencia. from 2012)
  3. The woman does not have either training or opportunity to work outside the home (see first learning point) or autonomy to do what she wants. Without education, she is unable to earn enough money for herself and her two children.
  4. This story shows the typical pattern: alcohol abuse leads to fights but when the man asks for forgiveness and promises to change, the woman will accept this because she has more or less no other choice (see learning points one and three). In the end, this will occur over and over again.
  5. The physical and psychological abuse of the husband towards his wife and/or her children is based on being macho (machismo). This behaviour becomes engrained during childhood by the family.

 

Background information

Prevalence

  • 60.6% of women surveyed by INEC in 2011 said they had experienced some form of domestic violence.
  • 70% of women surveyed who faced domestic violence have had no type of educational instruction.
  • 90% of married or cohabiting women who have experienced violence are not
    separated from their partner.
  • The INEC 2011 study shows that domestic violence is a very common problem and neither social status or urban or rural origins make a difference in the prevalence. According to INEC’s studies, Ecuadorians conduct regarding alcohol has changed over the years. Currently, an increase in consumption is recorded in the juvenile stage. This is a worrying statistic when you consider that the World Health Organization report that Ecuador is the Latin American country with the highest consumption of alcoholic beverages.

 

Psychologist Tatiana Centeno from the hospital in Daule said in a newspaper interview related to Jessica´s story: “this case has the typical characteristics of the seducer considering a girl his property and taking her away from her support networks. The perpetrators have usually a problem of self-esteem and victims become codependent. Unfortunately, we are still our cultures´ daughters, we accept a bad compromise because we want to have a husband and still believe that when your husband abuses you, you have to solve it somehow and all by yourself”
References

  1. Berroa R. An introduction to Latin American society: a background to its fiction. http://mason.gmu.edu/~rberroa/Latinamerica.htm
  2. Ecuador ranks second in alcohol, says WHO http://www.ecuavisa.com/articulo/noticias/actualidad/36984-ecuador-ocupa-el-segundo-puesto-en-consumo-de-alcohol-segun-la
  3. Jessica Ruiz seeks to become a symbol of struggle for women (Jéssica Ruiz busca convertirse en símbolo de lucha por la mujer). 22.6.2014. El universo. http://www.eluniverso.com/noticias/2014/06/22/nota/3131051/jessica-busca-convertirse-simbolo-lucha-mujer
  4. Jéssica Ruiz smiles with her prosthesis and wants to work for their children (Jéssica Ruiz sonríe con prótesis y desea trabajar por sus hijos) http://www.eluniverso.com/noticias/2014/06/07/nota/3066252/jessica-sonrie-protesis-desea-trabajar-sus-hijos
  5. Woman lost both hands to save her life (Mujer perdió las dos manos por salvar su vida). Febuary 2014. http://expreso.ec/expreso/plantillas/nota.aspx?idart=5672336&idcat=19308&tipo=2
  6. 6 out of 10 women suffer gender violence in Ecuador http://www.inec.gob.ec/inec/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=490%3A6-de-cada-10-mujeres-sufren-violencia-de-genero-en-ecuador&catid=68%3Aboletines&Itemid=51&lang=es
  7. RomoLeroux GK. In Ecuador has machismo decreased? (En Ecuador ha disminuido el machismo?) http://www.telegrafo.com.ec/opinion/columnistas/item/en-ecuador-ha-disminuido-el-machismo.html
  8. Rosario M. New Ad Campaigns Take Aim at Machismo in Latin America http://www.latina.com/lifestyle/-news/new-ad-campaigns-take-aim-machismo-latin-america
  9. Salmon SS. Ecuadorian educational system. http://www.fulbright.org.ec/web/imagesFTP/6225.Ecuadorian_Educational_System_2011.pdf

Case 1

Professional and ethics related violence 

Objectives

  1.    To show how professional women (for example doctors and teachers) in Afghanistan and their families can be targeted because they work with victims of abuse.

 

Narrative

Dr. C. works as a gynaecologist in Afghanistan, providing healthcare to women suffering from abuse, including rape and domestic violence.

Her problems began when she was working in a clinic carrying out abortions on girls who had become pregnant after being raped by a male relative. These girls had to have an abortion or they would have been killed by their relatives or members of their community (an “honour” killing). Dr C. received threatening letters and phone calls from the Taliban, warning that she and her family would be killed because of her work.

Two years later, one evening she heard an explosion and rushed outside. Her children had been playing in the front yard. Her 11-year-old son was lying on the ground, very badly wounded.

He required medical treatment for almost a year, moving from hospital to hospital. Fortunately he was admitted to an army hospital at an American airbase. After surgery, he was left disabled with one leg shorter than the other. The incident affected him badly. He became mentally ill. He is now bullied at school and can no longer fulfil his lifelong dream of becoming a footballer. He is always tired and depressed. But sometimes he says with a smile: ‘Mum, it is good that I became the victim of a Taliban attack, otherwise I would have been without my mum now and you would have been the victim.‟

 

Six months later, her 22-year old brother was killed in a grenade attack in front of her house. The threats to her family were reported to the government, but nobody listened. Dr C. realised that further incidents were inevitable. She decided that her family had to move. She has now stopped doing abortions and keeps a low profile at work. Nobody knows her address. She is doing her best to make victims of violence aware of their human rights.

 

‘When they listen to my story of how I have lost my brother and how my son became disabled as a result of my struggle for womens human rights they get more courage to stand up and defend their rights’.

 

‘The situation here is very bad for women. Women have problems going out to work and girls are prevented from going to school. There are too many cases of violence against women. I have witnessed 30 to 50 cases in a month. When I tell [the women] to report their case to the police they refuse because their family would be ashamed of them and would treat them very badly. They don‟t go to the police and they tolerate the violence and harassment.

We have to help our people, particularly women, they need us and we have to serve the country and the people. I can‟t sit at home and do nothing, this is not in my nature.

Though I understand and have witnessed that there is great danger to my life in every step as a woman human rights advocate, I also understand that we cannot reach our goals and make a difference without accepting this risk to our own lives. Therefore my final goal is that all Afghan women become united to defend their human rights and know that a woman must be treated by men or her husband as a wife, as a mother and as a human’.

Learning points

  1. In some countries such as Afghanistan, violence against women and girls is accepted as part of the culture. Honour killings are not uncommon, and women can be stoned to death because of ‘adultery’ (the women are actually victims of sexual violence and are then blamed).
  2. Education and empowerment of women, and education of men and boys that violence against women is wrong, are important first steps.
  3. There must be a change in the culture towards gender equality – the government must take responsibility, and police must take action to protect women when violence is uncovered.
  4. Professionals who deal with victims of violence must be listened to and protected.